maturestudenthanginginthere

2011 – the best bits

All in all this has been a pretty good year, and I will be kind of sad to say cheerio to 2011.  But what were the best bits.

Study

Well for me the fact that I am still a Mature Student Hanging in There has got to be up there.  Fitting study in with everything else remains a struggle and I can’t say I’m getting better at the juggle, but it would be fair to say that study has become such an important part of my life that I know I would be lost without it.  This year I secured a level 2 pass and forge ahead with my Level 3 course – the highest level I need to study for my degree. So far I’m hanging in there with that too.

Feel the fear and do it anyway....

My Blog

This year saw the start of my wee blog in April.  Since my first post I have gone on to keep the postings coming and my wee blog has an important place in my heart.  The best bit of course is that in my travels in blogland I have come into contact with some pretty amazing bloggers, all sharing their stories.

Home Life

Now this has been an area where there is much change.  For one 2011 has been the year when my husband and I won our epic battle with the local Authority to secure planning permission to extend our home.  It was a journey and a half and bits of it were, how can I put it bloody terrible rather challenging, but we did it and I’m proud that through sheer hard work and determination we got there in the end.

Me with our happy band of builders

Caring

We’ve now been carers for 2 years (or is it 3 – life passes so quickly).  We’ve fought the system and kind of won in this area too.  However 2012, I have no doubt, will present us all with new challenges and as carers we need to be ready to step up to the mark.  I don’t know that we’ve really managed the juggle here, being carers is such a huge responsibility, but we’ve done our best, and remain grateful for support from family.

Actually having a Holiday

This was a big highlight.  Peter and I have been married for 3 years and this was our first proper holiday away together.  I said at the time, and I’ll say it again, it was the best holiday I’ve ever had.

Being a Mum

Well despite not having ‘the manual’ I seem to have made it through another year of being a mum.  Not just a mum, but I think a good mum – certainly not an easy thing to do.  Sure I’ve made mistakes and there are things I could do better, but hey I’m human – we’re all still standing.

My boy and his girlfriend, Saffron going to the school dance 2011

Not taking yourself too seriously….. Well this year I’ve embarked on my grey period and having stepped away from the hair dye for almost 4 months now I’m surprised to discover that there isn’t quite as much grey as I’d imagined. 2011 also allowed for opportunities to do a bit of raising money for charity and The Race for Life, in support of breast cancer was definitely a highlight (just not at the time as I came wheezing over the finish line and collapsing into my mother in law’s wheelchair).

Work

Well I never did get that job I went after this year, but the process of applying for another job caused me to reflect on opportunities in my current job – things as they say are looking up (but I’m still on the look out for that new job – so come on 2012, lets see what you can do eh! :wink:

As I’m a glass half full kind of gal I’ve decided to focus on the highs, but of course we all have lows.  I don’t always get this life stuff right, but I’m nothing if not a trier.

I think the final word for 2011 and as we march into 2012 should go to Dr Seuss….

So what were your best bits of 2011 – and what will you take with you into 2012?

December 31, 2011 - Posted by | Carer Stuff, Family Life, Humour, Life, Study, Work | , , , , ,

16 Comments »

  1. I’m so glad you decided to start your blog, I’ve enjoyed reading aboutyour adventures, and look forward to many more! :o )

    Comment by caridwen | December 31, 2011 | Reply

  2. Nice post and a happy new year.

    Comment by dribblingpensioner | December 31, 2011 | Reply

    • Thank you DP. It’s lovely that you stopped by. Happy New Year right back at you! Hope it’s a good one.

      Comment by maturestudenthanginginthere | December 31, 2011 | Reply

  3. Love the Seuss quote. Happy New Year.

    Comment by backonmyown | December 31, 2011 | Reply

  4. I like “Feel the fear and do it anyway….”
    Last year I promised myself I would enrol in an online creative writing course. I’ve still not done so :( The Open University courses are out of my budget and the others – will they just take my money and run.

    Your post has certainly made me reflect on the best parts of 2011.

    Happy New Year!

    Comment by Piglet in PortugalPiP | December 31, 2011 | Reply

    • Well hello there. I guess writing is a way of getting creative with your writing and best of all it’s free. As for the OU I don’t know if it’s relevant but lots of folks qualify to have their fees covered = free courses. If you click on the eligibility checker at link below it has a calculator that works out whether you are entitled to a discount – certainly does no harm to check.

      http://css2.open.ac.uk/fafcalculator/eligibility.aspx

      Happy New Year to you and I look forward to reading more of your posts in the coming months – maybe you will even treat us to a sample of some of your creative writing :wink:

      Comment by maturestudenthanginginthere | January 2, 2012 | Reply

  5. Great post, Jacqueline! I’ll have to ponder my “best bits” of the prior year. I feel lucky if I can remember what happened yesterday, let alone a year ago… I’ve begun keeping a journal–just a short one–to help me recall events and feelings (and give me fodder for more blog posts). That will help for next year, but not this past one!

    Comment by Lorna's Voice | January 1, 2012 | Reply

    • Thank you Lorna. I know what you mean about trying to remember things :wink: I think thats why I have grown to love blogging, looking back on posts is a lovely way of remembering. Happy New Year to you and congrats on the fantastic award!

      Comment by maturestudenthanginginthere | January 2, 2012 | Reply

  6. I like these bits, Jacqueline. And would like to wish you a very good year, with much study, and happiness from your very full life. And it has been a pleasure getting to know you.

    Comment by ShimonZ | January 2, 2012 | Reply

    • Much study and happiness sounds just grand. I hope 2012 is kind to you also and I always appreciate it when you take the time to stop by my wee blog.

      Comment by maturestudenthanginginthere | January 2, 2012 | Reply

  7. What a great and full year indeed! I love your photo illustrations, they make me smile…
    The best bits of 2011 (undeniably the worst year of my life) were finding a job so soon after my husband left, moving into my new house, feeling the depth of support from friends, family and sometimes unexpected people, such as bloggers, and some moments of joy with my children, which all by themselves make life worth living.
    I will take this blog into the new year, and the sun warming my neck as I type these words.
    It’s been great reading you, Jacqueline, and I wish you and yours a wonderful new year, full of (good) surprises :)
    xxx

    Comment by Lady E | January 3, 2012 | Reply

    • Thank you Lady E, your sentiments are very much appreciated. For you I hope that all the good things you have in your life wrap around you protectively to get you through the tough bits. :wink:

      Comment by maturestudenthanginginthere | January 3, 2012 | Reply

  8. Love the Dr. Seuss quote! Sometimes its hard to remember that. Your year sounds as if it were challenging, but in the best , most growth-worthy, ways possible. I like that you start off with “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway” as that’s long been my favorite mantra, every since reading (and then rereading and rereading) the book of the same name by Susan Jeffers. That book talks about getting out of your “comfort zone” and it sure looks like you did. Hope you 2012 brings all you need.

    Comment by Karrie | January 9, 2012 | Reply

    • Thank you Karrie for reading and taking the time to leave a comment. I hope 2012 is kind to you to, in lots of ways.

      Comment by maturestudenthanginginthere | January 9, 2012 | Reply


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